Be kind and compassionate toward yourself. If someone does not want to eat meat, they dont, and no one can force them to do so. What is it called when someone blames you for everything? He or she just doesnt know how or cant control himself or herself to behave properly. So thank the past for a better future." ~Unknown I used to think when someone cheated on me that I was flawed. But nobody is perfect and whats important is that youre trying to do your best to get better. This is not to your discredit. If you or someone you know is experiencing any of these behaviors, dont hesitate to take action. Spread the blame. Few of us will experience that level of victimisation. You never know what type of mood they'll be in, and you have to . 1. The cause of the abuse lies solely with the abuser! Be it as friends or life partners, there are very fewer chances of them making an effort to move in your direction to come mid-way. Lets say they blamed you for not waking up early because youre late for an event. One tells oneself, She really asked for it, I did it for her own good, or, It was necessary, and even, It never happened.. 2. The one receiving projectionthe blamehas several fundamental dilemmas to deal with (and then some): How do you respond and, if you so choose, continue to be in relationship with a person who uses you as a place to assign the feelings that they cannot own? Before you even get to what to say to someone who betrayed you, you have to think about the things you should make sure you do in order to handle this the right way. Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse and can be very devastating for anyone who experiences this type of manipulation. If you feel hurt, you have been hurt. Emotional abuse, which is interchangeable with psychological abuse, in marriage is common. I refer to them here as actors.. it's always easier to offer a sincere apology for small things than for serious transgressions. As I explain in Why Won't You Apologize? This can be from repression. //
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